Do you want to have a great year at the University of Georgia? Eight UGA Amazing Students share their best advice for success on campus.
The students range from tour guides to orientation leaders, dancers to doctoral students. All have immersed themselves in studies, internships and extracurricular activities.
1. The first step in having a great college career is studying. The thing for me in high school was memorization. You could remember a couple of facts before the test and be OK. However, that doesn’t work in college. It is very application-based, so studying is very essential. The first step in studying is finding a good place to study and there are many places to study here on campus, like your dorm, the Miller Learning Center, the Main Library, Herty Field, etc. That is something I would tell my younger self.
2. Ask others for help. It is OK not to know things sometimes. The past year, I felt so anxious, stressed and overwhelmed at the exact same time because of the pandemic.Yet, never before had I felt so blessed, grateful, and privileged. I was blessed to be healthy; privileged to have food and shelter while many others struggled to put food on the table; and grateful that my loved ones were safe and well. To me, these realizations proved to be an unprecedented opportunity for self-reflection, and growth. They taught me the importance of being intentional about everything that I do, and that we can achieve more working together.
3. It’s OK if you are not sure what you want to do at first. I found the process of choosing a major extremely stressful – I even changed my major five times during my first year. Don’t be afraid to take classes you are interested in, even if they are “unrelated” to your major! It’s always worth it to engage with subjects you’re passionate about, and often they can help push you in the right direction.
4. Don’t put so much pressure on choosing a path. Explore Athens more, and don’t overwhelm yourself with getting involved. Pursue things that make you happy and further your personal or professional growth. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and initiate conversation. Finding a mentor is the best decision, and it helps make some of the more heavy and scary parts of life a little bit less scary. Accept who you are. Wanting to improve and be a better version of yourself is good, but don’t let that shift into being critical of who you are in the moment.
5. Allow yourself to make mistakes, as long as you acknowledge and learn from the experience. Growth isn’t an instant process, nor is it tangible. Approach life with an open mindset and be prepared to learn through all of the moments: positive and negative experiences. There’s value in the discomfort. The personal growth that I have experienced in just my first two years of college has shown me that growth comes from making mistakes and—most importantly—learning from them as you navigate life in the future.
6. Success is defined by you; there are no set guidelines or timelines to achieving it. Be honest with yourself about what you are passionate about and what success means to you. Once you know that, seek out opportunities that help you get closer to your goals. If you reach your goal, set another! The only way to grow is to keep striving for better. Believe in yourself; you got this.
7. Focus on the people and the things that really matter. It’s so easy to get carried away trying to get somewhere or accomplish something, but many things in this world are fleeting and temporary. So spend more time showing love to the people around, saying and showing “I love you,” and making memories that you’ll never forget. Those are the things that really matter and the things that will never leave you.
I think one of my biggest obstacles in life has been myself. I’ve been learning how to get out of my own way whether it’s been worrying less about living up to the expectations of others, being OK with making mistakes and wrong decisions, knowing that I’m enough, or showing up for myself by being confident in what I want and how I feel. I’m learning myself every day and being patient with that learning process. I’m getting out of my own way and giving myself grace, and I hope that it’s making me a better friend, brother, son and person.
It’s OK to be different. We all are. I don’t have to fit into a mold or the standard. It’s in my difference that my power lies. That power allows me to empower others through mentorship, empathy, and by being an unconditional listener to those who may also feel like they’re not enough. We’re enough.
8. A few broad statements, because what fun would it be to give it all away?
- Always trust your gut. Always.
- Keep creating things you love.
- Do not let others dictate your life or values. The only person who needs to approve of you is yourself. “Those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind.” — Bernard Baruch
- Your standards are not too high. Determine what you want and don’t accept anything less.
- Call your mom! (I love you mom!)